DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE: 

It means the rude, violent and aggressive behavior in home, of a partner of course. The partner is not necessarily a man it can be woman too.

Reasons for domestic violence:

In my opinion the foremost reason for the violence from a man's side is unemployment. It is a part of human nature that whenever he or she is not busy with the work they do, they tend to get disturbed. Now this disturbance can formulate its shape in any dangerous way because humans are attracted more towards negativity than positivity  as it is in their nature. For a typical man the best way to bust his anger is to rush up on his wife. To beat her, humiliate her and torture her.Other reasons include over thinking, drug addiction, poverty and interest in other woman.

Same violence can also be seen from a woman's side but the cases are very rare like one in a million. Reasons might be drug addiction, over thinking, psychiatric or the woman might have interest somewhere else.

Impacts of domestic violence:

The impacts of domestic violence are really deep. They can pass over to the generations. How? If a  male kid has seen his father beating up his wife and torturing her, there are clear and vivid chances that he will end up the same way. Same is followed for a female kid seeing her violent mother. So this issue is like a chain reaction. It also may lie dormant, not showing signs and symptoms in behavior of the young ones until they get married. In this way it causes disruptions over the generations
The second impact is that it drains out the skills of the children. They always see their parents fighting so they develop a fear inside them. Even over small things happening, their reactions become intense. They get insecure and may have a problem of confidence lacking. They forget about themselves and always worry about their parents. At this point there is probability that children may get involve in illegal activities, not only illegal but also immoral! and this is the third impact of domestic violence. As we all know that the memories of childhood are very strong that's why we have to treat the children wisely and affectionately; specially those who have been victimized to this issue. There are very few children who have the capability to positively resist these situations. We see that most of the impacts are affecting the kids. Partners may also get affected, they may harm themselves or others. The consequences might be very very long lasting and both of them can end up being in jail.

How to cope with such kinds of situations?

We can play our role in this issue by helping the affected kids, by arranging sessions for them, by negotiating peacefully with the violator. While on the other side individual patience, tolerance and most importantly strict laws against violators might be helpful while awareness about human rights can help to ease the situation.