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INFERIORITY COMPLEX

INFERIORITY COMPLEX THESE DAYS:

As per my observations, insecurities these days are too much materialistic. No doubt, every kind of insecurity is fatal but materialistic one is like a tumor which eats away one's abilities, faith and willpower and I think these three things occupy second most important place in human life; first one is oxygen ofcourse. The victims ratio of this mental disorder is tilted more towards female gender because they easily get delighted with useless concepts such as fashion, clothes, shoes or in short wardrobe of others. 

This happens when "the company" of the victim is different from his way of life. One cannot change his way of life just because of the exposure to "more adventurous, more modern or a better company" (according to the victim), rather he imagines it with himself, setting aside the real world, resultantly he "modernizes" the state of mind.



OUTCOMES OF THIS STATE OF MIND:

Resultantly, the victim retards himself with:

1. Inconsistent personality disorder. Because his thoughts, actions and speech gets influenced by a bunch of people which changes with the direction of wind.

2. In that specific circle of him, he has no self respect at all. He moulds himself like that calf whose leash is not with the cow but with the whale.

3. He, in order to "glorify" himself as much as his influencers, starts lying. He becomes a lifelong liar. In this way he gets belittled with every rising sun.

4.He remains in an unnecessary struggle which does not bear fruit at all.

5. He becomes a grounded one with zero immunity to hardships, draining his skills and abilities eventually relying and depending upon others. The interesting thing is that he knows all these consequences but even lies to himself and does not admit them at all.

HOW TO REMAIN IMMUNE FROM THIS DISORDER:

If one develops the following basic attributes to himself, he will always remain at the shore:

1. First and foremost thing is to have strong personality which does not get swayed by "external magical elixirs".

2. Having legit willpower and solid faith in being "you".

3. One should be emotionally stable. Emotional stability does not mean transform yourself into a robot but be natural. Be happy with how you are and what you are.

4. Accept the truth, be real with your imperfections because they are beautiful.

5. It does not mean to ignore process, developments and room for betterment, one must atleast be this conscious to know the boundary line between the thirst for change and falling prey to inferiority complex.

Many people who started at zero and ended up at 100 followed some of the above mentioned rules like Henry Ford, Thomas A.Edison, and Woodrow Wilson which shows that it all starts with faith and a burning desire in your heart.



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