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YOUR LIFE MATTERS NO MATTER WHAT THE CIRCUMSTANCES ARE!

LIVES ARE GIVEN AND TAKEN BY GOD, OUR AIM MUST BE TO LIVE IT NOT TO RULE IT...

What is the thing which makes human so helpless that he even denies his own life?
To me the most precious thing which I care about most is my breath, my life. If a person is capable to muster up such courage to give up on his own life, he must be depressed this much. Now what might be the reasons for depression. For me, the top most reason is that there are no listeners left in the society. In today's world, we might live in same house but we are separated by the walls of social media. We barely have family talks. Even if we contact our friends and relatives, we do it for our own "Transactional causes"_ you give I take, I give you take. Even I have experienced that many of my close friends and relatives do not call or message me until they have their own interest in doing so.
What happens when there are no listeners? That listener might be a close friend to the depressed one. As a result, the depressed has no one to tell his situations to; to spill out the depression. That depression starts building up in his mind, making leaps and leaps of worries. A time comes when you ask him why are you sad? and he replies I am ok.. That is the point where he realizes there is no one to whom he could talk or he realizes that even if I talk there is no use of it. Such conditions provokes him for the only way which he considers the right one_ waste his life.
You may leave a hate comment to someone, you may humiliate someone, you may belittle someone and you not even know how he perceives all these things. How these things seep into his heart and mind? How he feels about what you just said. We even do not remember the hate we give to people but the people remember it. You may call it a joke, but you never know how much disheartened the other would be. We are such a Robotic generation that we really don't care about the feelings of others.
We see the facebook uploads of celebrities, we admire them, we want to be like them and what happens next? He/she commits suicide the other day. We see only the happy moments because we upload only our happy moments and even those happy moments are not happy moments. How on earth will a depressed post something about his issues in that utopia?
The truth is we never create passage for those who needs passage the most. When they waste their lives then we mourn on them, we rather love mourning than listening!

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  1. Shahida altaf17 June 2020 at 08:38

    Much needed one...

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  2. marwa khan17 June 2020 at 08:40

    Well explained and highlighted the most genuine thing efforts appreciated.

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  3. Unknown17 June 2020 at 08:42

    I agree 100% Hadia💯

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  4. Madeeha Qayyum17 June 2020 at 08:56

    So true 👍

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  5. Omer Gul17 June 2020 at 09:09

    Exactly ��

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  6. Arya stark 17 June 2020 at 11:17

    Good effort 👏
    But social media is not the only cause which leads you to depression. People In today's world are so quick to judge and pass their negative coments not only through social media but to the person sitting next to him They are so used to it that they even don't realize what harm they are causing to others.

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    1. Hadia Altaf17 June 2020 at 11:22

      yes definitely.. main cause are the people themselves. That is why I emphasized on "listening" not talking

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  7. Dr. Hina Habib17 June 2020 at 17:01

    A bitter reality.. well explained 👍🏻

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  8. Unknown18 June 2020 at 01:45

    Awesome..u define v well .keep it up

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  9. Unknown19 June 2020 at 03:58

    I really appreciate this blog ... you wrote it very detailed concisely .. your thoughts are really positive ... you are right no one is a listener...
    We should start with ourselves, we should first learn how to listen .. we should try ourselves to listen...
    Bcz listening is important for our own knowledge as well as listening is better than talking...

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  10. Unknown19 June 2020 at 12:12

    Proud of you 🤗like for real ok 😅

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